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Poll: Do you think Sexual Addiction is a serious mental illness?

67% of Haiya! visitors believe that Sexual Addiction is not a serious illness. Vote and share your opinion on the issue.

Beware of Sex Addiction

By Isaiah Esipisu
In medicine, Sexual Addiction refers to a behaviour characterised by intense sexual drive or rather obsession with sex, as it was diagnosed of the golfer – Tiger Woods.

However, experts say that this is not limited to sexual acts only, but it also includes thoughts of sex that tend to dominate one’s mind, making it difficult to concentrate or even engage in healthy social relationships.

Do you spend much of your free time fantasizing about sex, using sex to deal with boredom, stress, turning to masturbation whenever a sexual partner is not available? If yes, then you need to see a doctor because you could be suffering from a common disease known as Sexual Addiction.
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Friends with benefit...i want to know who really 'benefits'

who are really the beneficiaries of this ploy?

Friends with ‘benefit’

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To You with Love - Valentines

They say a picture is worth a thousand words…what about a gift?  Worth three words ‘I love you’ or can it convey much more and get you engraved into your partner’s heart for keeps?

Smart gift giving is not about romanticism but about hand-selecting and personalizing whatever it is you are presenting to the point that your partner will gush in amazement at how much you know them and how much the gift they have got is ‘exactly what they wanted’. 

On this day, lovers want to impress and surprise. Haiya! explores ways in which you can ooze love and woo your partner by passing the message that you are thinking of only them only...always.
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I Love You…I Think! Gay men and women married to the opposite sex

The dynamics of gay men and women married to the opposite sex

I have talked to a large number of gay men and women and the general consensus is that, after a life of living out their gay identities, engaging in same sex activities, entering into gay relationships, and with the onset of old age, when the need for stability and companionship beckons, they would, not as expected, choose to marry someone of their own gender, but would marry a person of the opposite sex, even with the knowledge that they are gay or lesbian. They are not denying or suppressing their gay identities.

Poll: Do you think the 'Tumechill' abstinance campaign is effective?

71% of Haiya! visitors think that the popular 'Tumechill' campaign that promotes abstinence among teenagers is not effective. What do you think? Vote and share your opinion.

‘Tumechill’ Campaign is a Flop - Study

By Isaiah Esipisu

Even after the US dedicated Ksh 75 billion to put across adverts in different types of media and teenage education advising them to exclusively abstain from sex, a study by Mathematica Policy Research has found out that the effort did not bear any fruit ten years down the line.

Instead, the researchers found out that teenagers who were actively involved in the campaign behaved exactly the same as those who were never exposed to this kind of education as far as sexuality is concerned.
An aggressive campaign seeking to have teenagers exclusively abstains from sex until marriage has failed, according to studies.
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Book Review: The road to Eldoret and other stories

Book Title: The road to Eldoret and other stories

Genre: Short Stories

Author: Tony ‘Smitta’ Mochama

Publisher: Brown Bear Insignia

Date published: August 2009

Reviewed by Eudiah Kamonjo

A truly Kenyan journey with a ‘gangsta’ for a guide
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Movie Review: Couples Retreat

Movie Review:  Couples Retreat

Director: Peter Billingsley

Duration: 113 Minutes

Screened at: Silverbird (Junction)

Deliberately trying to conceive can dampen the fire in any romance and with Jason (Jason Bateman) and Cynthia (Kristen Bell) having failed to do so and nearing a divorce, they decide to enlist at a couples therapy retreat at a paradise called Eden.

Deliberately trying to conceive can dampen the fire in any romance especially if sex becomes a chore and the timing is placed at when the woman is ovulating. This comedy explores a couples chance at rekindling the fire.
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Movie Review: Shuga

Movie Title: Shuga

Script Writer: Amanda Lane

Producer: Desiree Markgraaff

A story about sex, love, commitment, HIV/AIDS and all the things that come with youth.
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